Ethnography

Ethnography

April 21, 2016

Being a Subby



                           Being a subby isn’t anything easy. Watching over these peeps in the TC is something new. Them knowing that there’s a subby seems to send a sign through them that it’s a free day. All though there are instructions on what’s to be done they still don’t seem to care. I did my part and told them what the plans were for the day. At the end of the day it falls on them and it is their grade. Their main focus seems to be on the beef and problems they have with their bf’s.
                           We have straight hair that is complaining that their bf is a pot head. They even moved their one month anniversary plans so that said bf can go do what every other person does on 4/20 and that is get high as a kite. Straight hair has also expressed that they don’t like that, yet that’s how straight hair meet this bf. Only being together for a month they are already telling each other what the other person can and can’t do. By the looks of it, it is an immature relationship that they have. They would probably be much better apart than together. Having no trust is not a good foundation for a relationship. As you can see everything that they are talking about in nowhere near what they should be doing. They take there being a subby to do what they please. Straight hair knows what they want but can’t seem to drop what is holding them back.
                           Then we have jean shirt who is actually working on her TC work. As a subby it’s rare to actually see someone follow the instructions and get the work done. Jean shirt has been writing the whole period. From what I’m assuming I believe that jean shirt is doing the work. But, for all I know jean shirt can be doing something else. That is something I will not know. Jean shirt can possible be doing nothing at all but making it look like they are working. It seem that jean shirt is a very private person, who keeps to themselves and most definitely does what is told. Jean shirt is well behaved and doesn’t start trouble. Whatever jean shirt is doing is important because the task is getting done.
                           Now blondie on the other hand, seems to have the most problems of all. This group of five peeps all seem to have bf problems. Is it really the time for these peeps to have bf’s? Their studies should be more important. They are all giving advice to one another. Yet three of them haven’t had a bf and the other two are in bad terms with their bf’s. So do they really have the right to give advice? They should just drop them so called bf’s and turn their focus somewhere else. Like getting what the subby said done. They should just walk out and leave behind the bad relationship they are in. Or are they with said person because they don’t want to be alone and they rather be with someone weather it is good or bad. Or can it be that there is more to the story that they aren’t revealing.
                           Last but not least we have grey shirt. Who seems to have trouble with fb who isn’t quite a bf. Like they say if they are doing it to the person they are with they will do it to you. If they did it for you they will do it to you. Which is the advice pink shirt just gave grey shirt. Random thing is that camo is giving advice to grey shirt. It is not likely for a person like camo to give advice to a person like grey shirt. Camo is practically telling grey shirt like it is, how people like him work. Quite frankly it is good advice. The best thing about this is that the peeps are actually getting their work done while they are talking. It just makes the job of being a subby a bit easier.

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